CHOOSE YOUR FRIENDS CAREFULLY (ARTICLES)
Friends value is important part of human life. Therefore, everyone need to takes his every step very carefully. If any mistaken, you will lose the self-value in the society.
I remember
my childhood, someday I came to home with crying. It's happened many times. The
reason is someone my childhood friend hit me. My father always asked me, what’s
wrong you have done with them?
My answers
were always, nothing wrong done with them! My father always said- if you
nothing wrong to done with them, they will never hit you!
But my
father was trust my all answers, I just understand that later on, when I am
adult. He just wanted to teach me something for my future life.
One-day
evening, I was in my study room, preparing my home task for next day school. My
father came to my room and he wants to say me something. My father said, he
will take few minutes of mine.
Then he
starts to his speech, listen son, life is not easy, which you having now! A day
will come I am not with you anymore maybe, so you need to handle your life
smoothly at that moment. Therefore, I give you some advises for your future,
and you will start follow it from tomorrow. I was attentively hearing his
speech.
Don’t make
any friend, who is not much better than you. There is some reason to explain
you, listen it attentively.
1.If you
have a good friend, and much better than you, he will always think better for
you, respect you, how can take over you to up, always he will try socially, how
you get respect, he will understand your exact friendship value.
2.But if
you chose a friend, as like your level, he will not understand your friendship
value, he will try to use you, neglect you, always try to put down and try to
insult you in socially.
3.If you
chose friends, lower than your level, he will always try to bring you his
level, he will be jealous about you. Why he is not on your position, so he will
try to be bring you his position always.
So you
need to understand this 3 points, then choose your friend from tomorrow.
Several
years gone, in between I have to face this kind of situation several time, then
remembered that, what’s my father told.
All
parents want their children will have better and proper life. But we children
exactly understand them, when they are not with us anymore.
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